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Princess Tea Party



So, Mo Mo was 3 last week. We had a lovely time up in the Lakes at Nanny and Grandad's. Nanny prepared a marvellous Princess Tea Party complete with magic wand tree and tiaras.
Birthday Breakfast! I made those tea cup biscuits.

Say, "Cheese!"

Ice Cream Parlour






I made the cake, but I cheated with these decorations and bought them on ebay.



Magic wand tree.

Party Politics

So, Mo Mo is going to be 3 very soon. I booked a large venue for a party. However, the more I have thought about it, the more I've decided against the idea. Mainly, I think because Mo Mo is going to be 3. I think it would be perfect if she was 6 or 7 and chose her own friends. But, I was finding it so hard to decide who to invite. On my list were all of my friends and their kids of varying ages. Then, because the venue was large, I was thinking of other people to invite just to make up numbers. The further down the line it got, the further I felt it moved away from what my little girl really wants which is this:
1. To be Cinderella.
2. To have a tea party.
3. For Daddy to be a pirate and Mummy and Bee to be princesses!


If this is what will truly make her happy (and lets face it, she changes her mind when the wind changes direction), then what am I doing??? Were we having the party for us or for Mo Mo? So, I have cancelled the venue which is fine, because I haven't told her I booked it, or invited anybody yet. Mo Mo doesn't have a huge amount of friends at the moment-  she has a handful who she sees regularly and these are not really of her own choosing. They are relationships based on my friendships with other mums and our kids are thrown into the mix. So, instead, we are heading off to the Lakes for the weekend as a family where we can have our own special tea party and we are also going to go for a girly outing to an ice cream parlour to stuff our faces!

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Mo Mo is just venturing into the world of making her own friends since she has started pre-school. Most experts agree that children start to form their own relationships around the age of 3. It got me thinking- how do you explain what friendship is? It's taken me this long (thirty- ahem- something years) to realise that there are true friends who stick by you forever and those who are transitional, depending on what's going on in your life at the time. A bit of research led me to this:- "Aristotle provides us with one of the great discussions of friendship. He distinguishes between what he believes to be genuine friendships and two other forms: one based on mutual usefulness, the other on pleasure. These two forms only last for as long as there is utility and pleasure involved, whereas genuine friendship does not dissolve. It takes place between good men: 'each alike wish good for the other qua good, and they are good in themselves'. Aristotle continues, 'And it is those who desire the good of their friends for the friends’ sake that are most truly friends, because each loves the other for what he is, and not for any incidental quality' (Aristotle 1976: 263)." (http://www.infed.org/biblio/friendship.htm) Perhaps a bit wordy for an almost 3 year old!


Anyway, here's an interesting article on the Politics Of Kids' Birthday Parties.


'Princess Tea Party' Sensory Tub!

I've been reading about sensory tubs (or boxes) on various different blogs and felt inspired to try one at home for Mo Mo. I've gone with a general pink theme with a focus on her new porcelain tea set. For the last couple of months, she has been telling people that she's having a 'Princess Tea Party' for her third birthday in November!
What's inside the tub:
  • Birthday cards
  • Pink pasta (I put dried pasta into a sealed bag with some pink food colouring, shook it up and then placed it on a tray to air dry)
  • Pink scarf
  • Pink sequins
  • Pink plastic glasses
  • Spoons
  • Cotton wool
  • A printed out princess (from Mrs Pancake)
  • Wooden cakes
  • Pink cloth
  • Sparkly pink and purple pom poms
  • Pink tissue paper
  • A larger pink plastic drinking cup
  • A jewellery purse
  • A plastic pink ice cube tray
  • A handkerchief in a little zippy bag
  • A porcelain tea set
  • A pink phone


The idea behind a sensory tub or box is that children explore the world through all of their senses (multisensory learning.) The more ways that they can explore the more that children will learn. Sensory tubs  make hands-on exploration of materials accessible to children while containing the mess sometimes associated with it. I guess it's similar to the builder's tray idea, but on a smaller scale for an individual child, rather than groups of children. Interesting textures are put in the box. The box can be themed to relate to your child's interests, the season or something special that is happening. It could, on the other hand, be a selection of random sensory items.

The sensory tub has a base material such as rice. I've put pasta in mine as I just know I'll be finding tiny bits of rice everywhere forever more! Styrofoam peanuts, snow flakes, corn, shells, shredded paper, dried beans or lentils could be used. Spoons and containers are put into the tub for pouring, scooping, measuring etc. Then there are your treasures! So, the 'Princess Tea Party' tub has a small porcelain tea set, a bracelet, an organza bag, some pink sparkly pom poms, sequins and some different pink materials. To add a sense of smell, I have placed a pink cloth with some strawberry essence dropped onto it! Here's a fantastic link of sensory tub ideas from Our Worldwide Classroom so that you can create a new sensory tub each month.

The first thing Mo Mo did with the tub is get each thing out and put it on the floor to see what was in there. "These are like clouds," she said as she took the cotton wool out of the box. Next she put the pasta pieces into the bag and the ice cube tray and arranged the cotton wool balls in a circle on the sparkly foam. The pasta was then put into the little zippy bag and Mo Mo kept saying- "Is that enough?" and "That's too much." She definitely enjoyed opening and closing the zipper. Her interest was kept for about 20 minutes. I have noticed that Mo Mo loves containers. In our tuff spot tray at the moment, we have a selection of boxes and containers of various sizes- some with lids and some without and various bags with draw strings. This has led me to read more into schemas to find out how I can develop Mo Mo's play.







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